How To Date Asian Women
Give a wink, flash a smile, buy a drink, and ask her number. It’s really just easy to engage in flirting and small talk. But even though you may know how it is to date most Caucasian girls, you may wonder how your tricks seem to just not work with Asian women. Those pickup lines might as well be trashed and your usual suave efforts be modified because the truth is, they just won’t work. But before you give up on trying to talk to that Asian girl of your dreams, don’t fret because there are actually some ways you could help yourself. So to give you some tips on how to date Asian women, here are some things you should remember.
Be Smart and Well-Informed
She wouldn’t really go after the straight A student, but she would prefer men who read up and know about the most basic of things. She would really find it repulsive if she can beat you at some simple brain work, or perhaps if you just utter some randomly stupid stuff. Of course, she would prefer to be able to engage in long and meaningful conversations with her guy, so it really wouldn’t help if you were just empty-headed. After all, being mostly smart and hardworking themselves, Asian women wouldn’t want to get stuck with some idiot who couldn’t even pass their intellectual standards.
Be Respectful of Their Culture
Knowing that your culture is significantly different from theirs, you should know better than comparing. Of course, you don’t need to follow suit in her traditions or rituals, but it would really help if you at least respect it and the differences from your own practices. After all, there is really no superior culture, and everything that we have acquired through culture is something dear to us. So if you would want to get into her good books, make sure that you stay out of the offensive zone—such as making direct remarks about her traditional costume, or perhaps some weird way she eats—and just appreciate the fact that you can always learn something new about her.
Get to Know Her Family
Asians are typically family-oriented, so never be surprised if your girl asked you to meet her parents, even when you were just recently dating. She would prefer it if her family is well-informed about her acquaintances, especially people whom her parents will see her more often with. Fathers also tend to be stricter with their daughters, along with the girl’s brothers, so it would really help if you spend some time bonding with them just to find common ground and of course, earn their approval.
Make Her Feel Secured
Like almost all women, Asian girls also have a tendency to be insecure and jealous, especially in comparison to the Caucasians. This is because of their “darker” and “shorter” physical attributes. However, they may strike up their confidence once they are assured that they are loved and respected. How do you exactly do this? Just treat her with respect, say “I love you” more often, do something to prove your love and, of course, never do something that would break her trust.
